Chatterbox Karaoke!
Mar 21 @ 9:00 pm – Mar 22 @ 1:00 am


– The third Thursday of every month.

Sing from your groin!

…Or your mouth

Featuring KJ Bryan who will help you sing your way into the stars and into their pants.

Don’t sing? Karaoke is an easy way to meet people in a fun environment.

$5 at the door. 21+

FYI: Chatterbox was a 1977 X-rated comedy/fantasy film in which a woman discovers she has a talking vagina. Fortunately her vagina can also sing and she goes on a cross-country tour singing show tunes and disco. The film, named as one of the worst of all-time by the Golden Turkey awards, was a twist on the 1972 classic Deep Throat. You can imagine the scenario in that one.

Witness Chatterbox:

Meet & Greet
Mar 22 @ 9:00 pm – Mar 23 @ 2:00 am

No pressure, low door fee. Win-Win.

$10 – Before 10 p.m.
$20 after 10

Dress code: be presentable.

Expect to interact.

Value individuality over labels.

Sanctuary is and always will be a safe place for and supporters of the LGBTQ+ community.

Consent is a requirement for play and interaction.

ADA accessible. 21+

Bottoms Up: SOLD OUT
Mar 23 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm



Since the dawn of time, spanking has brought pleasure and pain to all kinds of booties. What’s your favorite kind of spanking? Firm yet gentle? Over the knee? Have you ever tried rhythmic spanking or been spanked into a trance-like state? This workshop will help you explore all of that — and more!

In this class, Intimacy Coach & Erotic Blueprint™ Educator Jessie Fresh will go into the biology behind why spankings can feel so delicious, how to use your hands and tools for the yummiest delivery, warm up (a key ingredient), placement of spanks so they become orgasmic, how to “read” your partner, negotiation and consent, energetics, ergonomics, and aftercare.

We’ll also get into how you can customize the experience for the bottom’s Erotic Blueprint, whether they’re energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, or a shapeshifter. This class will include a hot live demo. Singles, couples, and friend groups welcome.

Note: These techniques will only be practiced on ourselves, by ourselves in the class, partnered spanking can be practiced once the class is complete and the club is open to the public.

Investment is $20, includes admission to the workshop, as well as admission to Sanctuary Club for the evening. Space for the workshop is limited, reserve your ticket before it sells out.

**Doors will lock by 7:15pm, no one will be admitted entry past that time.

***Disclaimer****: 21+ This event is held at Sanctuary Club, an upscale, sex-positive- sex possible space. There will NOT be any sexual activity during this workshop. Sanctuary offers a full bar, lounge seating, dance floor, open play areas, dungeon furniture, ample sanitary supplies, and a fun convivial atmosphere. Your ticket includes access to the club for the rest of the evening if you choose to stay.

Mar 23 @ 9:00 pm – Mar 24 @ 2:00 am


DJ Slimkid3 (Formerly of Pharcyde) and DJ Tony Stewart bring you a HOT Dance Party for you to Loose yourself too. Selections of House, Dance, HipHop, 80’s, Funk, Soul, & R&B.

Cover: $10 before 10pm, $20 after.  21+

Mar 24 @ 3:00 pm – 8:00 pm

Just like any other carnival there will be games, performances, an art bazaar, sensation stations set up with various sensation play tastings hosted by various experienced doms and dommes in the community taking your body on a carnival ride, a glory hole specially outfitted for all genders for you to do what you want with.

There will be a whole BOTTOMLESS MIMOSA bar!!!!!

!!!!NO CLOWNS!!!!

— Dildo Ring Toss
— Strap on Baseball
— Canadian Beaver Eating Contest

— Live Painting by Fire Kat, he will be using his dick as a paintbrush
Instagram: @firekatg
— Live Body Painting by Creative Eros Art, “I did 3+ years of body paint printing, I’ve been Painting in acrylic for 10+ years”
Terra Lyn Anderson
Instagram: @CreativeErosArt

— Live Animal Trainer with Real Human Animals
— Zodiac Magic Card Tricks by The Mysterious Jim
— Runway Fashion Collaboration by various fashion and fetish designers

Art Vendors:
— Wild West Whips, “I make and sell all of my custom toys, made of a paracord and leather mix.”
Michael Mac – Pictures in Wild West Whip album
FetLife: JustCowboy

— Invibe Designs, “offers an assortment of leather accessories and some bondage gear. Most of the products are made in part with repurposed materials and most all of the materials are sourced locally (upon availability) to support the locally economy.
Infusing you with confidence, grace and beauty.”
Instagram: invibedesigns

— Sugar Spice Shop, “mostly lingerie, socks, bodysuits, 1 to 3 pieces from each design varying sizes, colors etc. I will be wearing my own products as well. I will also have school girl skirts, belt body straps, chokers, things to compliment a whole look.”

— Creative Eros Art, “I paint locally, I do exclusively Body Form Painting in Vibrant Acrylic Paint Colors on Canvas”
Terra Lyn Anderson
Instagram: @CreativeErosArt

Sensation Stations:
— Michael Mac or Cowboy Mike, “I’ve been in the lifestyle for 20+ years and trained for two as a submissive. I’m a mixture of Southern Gentleman and Gorean Master. I firmly believe that the only stupid question is the one you never ask. I can do impact play, sensation play, sensory deprivation, edge play and many more.”
Michael Mac – Pictures in Wild West Whip album
FetLife: JustCowboy

— Laurel, “passionate about the sex positive movement. She identifies as a body positive, ethical non-monogmist, currently happily practicing such in a non-traditional quad. She helps moderate multiple polyamory Facebook groups, including kink and swinger based pages. Her skills as a kink top are primarily based in sensation play, including erotic electro, impact, and bondage.
This evening she will be giving tastings with erotic electro play, ranging from a light tingle to intense zapping.”
Instagram: @midlife_mombod

Dress Code: Freak show or carnie attire, or easy access clothing

Cover is $10 at the Door

Sanctuary is ADA, LGBTQ+, 21+. Enter on Ninth.

Game Bang! Blanket Fort Night
Mar 27 @ 8:00 pm – Mar 28 @ 12:00 am

BRING YOUR OWN BLANKETS! Best fort gets bragging rights and the grand prize: a shitty bottle of booze. We’re not saying its that bottle of bacon vodka that keeps getting re-gifted to all your friend’s house parties… but it might be that very same bottle.

Onesies, kigurumis and pajamas are encouraged.

Welcome to Game Bang!
…where we play a variety of sexy games while making connections with a variety of sexy people!
Most games at Game Bang! Feature stripping, cuddling, kissing, stroking, and all manner of fun “truth or dare” type aspects. Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very well, there are a few extra guidelines we ask you to follow while having fun.

General Guidelines and Etiquette:

1. We want everyone to feel empowered and safe in Sanctuary. To facilitate a comfortable atmosphere, please let us know if you feel uncomfortable. We have a lot of experience and success moving forward through communication and teaching the consent process. Please keep in mind that even the most well-intentioned person can make a mistake around consent.

2. Social dares are not mandatory, and pressuring others to participate is very discouraged.

3. In fact, NO DARE is mandatory. Rules exist to facilitate games and provide opportunities for fun and connection, but are not expected to be followed verbatim. Ask your hosts for suggestions if you don’t feel like doing something as written.

4. Always put power into the hands of the most vulnerable person in any interaction! (Example: “Where would you like to be touched?” instead of “Where can I touch?”)

5. Be mindful of the physical, mental and emotional state of others. Perhaps someone has had a family emergency recently, had a bad day, or are simply feeling extra vulnerable today. Sometimes these things happen during the evening. Just because someone did something once, does not give implied consent in the future.

6. In line with mindfulness, remember that many people on game nights know each other or have met before. If you see an intimate interaction between others where consent is not clearly communicated, it does not give anyone else permission to do the same. Always assume that others have communicated consent. If you have concerns, please bring them to your hosts and they will look into it.

7. Please do not suggest others try things you want them to do. If someone seems confused or needs help on a choice, help them through empowerment. Find out what it is they want and encourage them to do it.
Game Bang is a weekly game night at Sanctuary. Come nerd out with your fellow kinksters. The games will change week to week but will probably include Janky Jenga and Cards Against Humanity. Feel free to bring your own games too!

Only $5. 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA
Sanctuary is located at 33 NW 9th Ave above Splash Bar, enter on 9th.


50 Shades of STFU!
Mar 28 @ 8:00 pm – Mar 29 @ 1:30 am

50 Shades of STFU, Every 4th Thursday

8pm – 1:30am   $10   21+

Spank the patriarchy at the hottest femdom party in Portland. Organized by pro-domme and BDSM coach Mistress Viola, 50 Shades of STFU is a kinky play party, social event, and performance venue for fem tops and the individuals who serve and worship them. We aim to create an inclusive space for LGBTQ, pansexual, queer, or straight subs and their fem tops.

If you’re a cis male dom this is really not the event for you. If you wanna switch it up and explore your subby side you are welcome to come. Check your entitlement at the door & see dress code.
There are no tastings at this event but it is a great place to meet fem tops who want to play and solo subs looking to be of service.
Playspaces, St. Andrews cross, semi-private areas, spanking benches, and hard points available.
This is a party to encourage and fuel fem tops and those who are interested in being submissive to them. We aim to be inclusive while encouraging attendees to dress the part, this is to create a safe space for this community to explore. We are looking to avoid gawkers or entitled dude tourists.
Fems can dress to impress as they wish (fetish wear encouraged).
Female subs encouraged to present as such as well.
Male attendees are required to dress to express their interest in fem dominance, even in some small way: fetish wear, collars, cuffs, high heels, fetish shoes, hoods, crossdressed, glamour, make-up, uniforms*, leather, PVC, lingerie, formal wear, leashes, puppy or animal costumes, sweet jammies, cute underpants, bow ties, bunny ears, etc.
Cisgendered male attendees will not be allowed in the club in plain street clothes.
For first-timers, black clothing and nice underwear are acceptable. If you have nothing to wear, we will give you a nametag to identify as: submissive, slave, sub-curious, etc.
Attendees will not move about the space nude unless part of an active scene. 
*Racist/fascist symbols and uniforms are not allowed in the club.
  • Do not interrupt scenes!
  • Do not get too close to play scenes or ask to be involved.
  • Always negotiate boundaries before playing!
  • Play is encouraged but NEVER expected of anyone.
  • Safe, sane, and 100% consensual play only.
  • Dungeon Monitors will be present and monitoring all scenes.
  • Aggressive cruising will not be tolerated. Be aware of the space and energy you are taking when you hover or get near a play scene.
  • CONSENT CONSENT CONSENT. Do not touch another person or their property without their explicit permission. No means no. Do not get pushy or aggressive. This behavior will be grounds for being asked to leave the club.
  • Attendees will not move about the space nude unless part of an active scene. 
  • No blood play, urine play, hot wax, vomit, scat, fire, knife play, guns, or breathplay. The DMs will end scenes including these actions.
  • Attendees will respect the Dungeon Monitors, hostess Mistress Viola, security, and Sanctuary staff and follow the rules and instructions.
  • No drugs or outside alcohol allowed.
  • No audio or video recording devices are allowed.
  • Cell phones may only be used outside or in the outer hallway. NO PHOTOS ALLOWED. If we see you taking photos you will be asked to leave.
  • Limit your play scenes to 45 mins as to allow time for others to use the play areas, suspension points and dungeon furniture as there are limited areas.
  • Clean furniture and play equipment before and after scenes. There are cleaning supplies provided by the club.
  • Do not move play furniture without discussing with DM or Mistress Viola first.
  • If you feel someone is misbehaving, being aggressive, or making you or someone else feel uncomfortable, please let the DMs, hostess Mistress Viola or club staff know ASAP and we will do what we can to inform the individual or have them removed.
  • Use of the word “safeword” is a call for assistance. DMs and/or other experienced players will intervene and come to your aid when they hear it.
Meet & Greet with DJ Wiggles
Mar 29 @ 9:00 pm – Mar 30 @ 2:00 am

No pressure, low door fee. Win-Win.

$10 – Before 10 p.m.
$20 after 10

Featuring DJ Wiggles

Dress code: be presentable.

Expect to interact.

Value individuality over labels.

Sanctuary is and always will be a safe place for and supporters of the LGBTQ+ community.

Consent is a requirement for play and interaction.

ADA accessible. 21+

Shibari 101: SOLD OUT
Mar 30 @ 12:00 pm – 3:00 pm
Japanese-style rope bondage (Shibari/Kinbaku) is hot, beautiful, and reallllly sexy.
Come learn the basics in a fun, supportive environment with Seattle Shibari!
In this three-hour workshop, we’ll explore several different foundational techniques and ties used in Shibari, including limb ties, body harnesses, and different ways to incorporate rope into your own sexy play. We’ll examine anatomy & safety issues associated with rope bondage, and learn tips & tricks for tying your partner smoothly. Each duo/couple will receive a printed handout to accompany the workshop.
Prerequisite: None.
This workshop is appropriate for all genders, sexual orientations, and body types. Please wear clothing suitable for tying and being tied in. No nudity, please. A yoga mat or towel will also be nice for sitting on the floor. Rope will be available to use at no charge during the workshop! Already have some rope? By all means, bring it.
Class size will be limited to 8 duos/couples. Early registration is highly recommended.
This event is also available on Sunday, March 31:
Questions may be directed to:
About the Educator: Jonathan (Seattle Shibari) is a Seattle-based rope artist who performs on stage, ties for photoshoots, and teaches Japanese-style rope bondage. Jonathan works to spread appreciation for this beautiful art in the Pacific Northwest via his website, Jonathan has taught numerous sold-out workshops, and teaches & performs internationally.
Short Shorts!
Mar 30 @ 9:00 pm – Mar 31 @ 2:30 am

You wear short shorts. We wear short shorts. We all wear short shorts.

Prizes to the shortest shorts, the weirdest shorts and best group shorts.

This is a body-positive, all-gender event

$10 in short shorts!
$20 in failure!
$30 in dad jeans.

21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, Enter on Ninth