Short Shorts!
Mar 30 @ 9:00 pm – Mar 31 @ 2:30 am

You wear short shorts. We wear short shorts. We all wear short shorts.

Prizes to the shortest shorts, the weirdest shorts and best group shorts.

This is a body-positive, all-gender event

$10 in short shorts!
$20 in failure!
$30 in dad jeans.

21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, Enter on Ninth

Shibari 101 – SOLD OUT
Mar 31 @ 2:00 pm – 5:00 pm

Japanese-style rope bondage (Shibari/Kinbaku) is hot, beautiful, and reallllly sexy.
Come learn the basics in a fun, supportive environment with Seattle Shibari!
In this three-hour workshop, we’ll explore several different foundational techniques and ties used in Shibari, including limb ties, body harnesses, and different ways to incorporate rope into your own sexy play. We’ll examine anatomy & safety issues associated with rope bondage, and learn tips & tricks for tying your partner smoothly. Each duo/couple will receive a printed handout to accompany the workshop.
Prerequisite: None.
This workshop is appropriate for all genders, sexual orientations, and body types. Please wear clothing suitable for tying and being tied in. No nudity, please. A yoga mat or towel will also be nice for sitting on the floor. Rope will be available to use at no charge during the workshop! Already have some rope? By all means, bring it.
Class size will be limited to 8 duos/couples. Early registration is highly recommended.
This event is also available on Saturday, March 30:
Questions may be directed to:
About the Educator: Jonathan (Seattle Shibari) is a Seattle-based rope artist who performs on stage, ties for photoshoots, and teaches Japanese-style rope bondage. Jonathan works to spread appreciation for this beautiful art in the Pacific Northwest via his website, Jonathan has taught numerous sold-out workshops, and teaches & performs internationally.
Game Bang!
Apr 3 @ 8:00 pm – Apr 4 @ 12:00 am

You wanted all the games. You played all the games.
Lets play games, meet and have fun…

Our hosts will guide you through a safe, playful evening of games including Codeword, Cards Against Humanity, Settlers of Catan, Red Flags, Naughty Jenga, Monkeyspank, etc.

$5 per person

Open to all (21+) in the sex-positive, LGBTQ+ community and their allies.

Sanctuary is located at 33 NW Ninth above Splash Bar, enter on ninth

Apr 4 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm

Come Party it Up w/ me Anna D. for the opening of “Clickbait” ••• my most recent attempt at immortalizing my uniquely beautiful friends in painting form & capturing the modern day Mona Lisa as seen through the omnipresent filter of Social Media 🤳👄🤳

Sanctuary is LGBTQ+, ADA, 21+.

Compact: Femme Dance Party
Apr 4 @ 9:00 pm – Apr 5 @ 2:00 am


This space celebrates the femmes, fem, feminine, fierce, and the fantasy. Break the binaries and define your boundaries.




$10 cover or bring a new makeup item that will be donated to SMYRC and get in for FREE. Makeup donations in exchange for cover are only accepted till 11pm.

Sanctuary is LGBTQ+, ADA, 21+.

Lead, Follow, Switch: A Connective Partner Dance Class
Apr 5 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm


We’re bringing partner dance to Sanctuary! Unlock your pleasure through connected movement! Learn the basics of partner dance and creative expression. Join us in a welcoming, inclusive, and judgement free environment where we will cover the fundamentals of:
-finding the groove
-communication and consent
-relationship between lead and follow

Not only will you learn the foundations of partner dance, but these skills can also be extended to social dynamics and sexual play! Partner Dance:
– is a way to create and build connection, especially when we don’t know how or are afraid to approach someone
– is a great activity for kinky people who want to learn how to lead and follow clearly (masculine/feminine, dom/sub dynamics, not gender specific)
– unlocks pleasure through movement (amazing foreplay!), is a turn on, and is super sexy
– is a great date night (these skills translate into the bedroom!)
– teaches confidence, communication, consent, and connection
– gets you in your body, connected sensually and sexually to yourselves and your partners

$15 at the door (tickets get you entry into the following event!)
No experience necessary. No partner necessary, couples and singles welcome. Lead/Follow not gender specific!

This dance class is trying to be a safer space for POC and LGBTQIA members of the community. Please let us know if you experience discrimination or bigotry of any kind, or if there is anything we can do to create a more welcoming environment

Sanctuary is 21+. LGBTQ+. ADA. Enter on Ninth.

Tropic Thunder
Apr 5 @ 9:00 pm – Apr 6 @ 2:00 am

Dance to the tropic beats and Carribean rhythms of Dj Ariel Cruzata Napoles. Sexxxy reggaeton, salsa and tropic house.

This is like a meet & greet with sex music!

Dress code: be presentable.

Expect to interact. Value individuality over labels. Consent is required.

No pressure, low door fee. Win-Win.

$10 – Before 10 p.m.
$20 after 10

Sanctuary is LGBTQ+, ADA, 21+.

Luv Hurtz
Apr 6 @ 9:00 pm – Apr 7 @ 2:00 am

Luv Hurtz

First Saturdays / 9pm to 2am

A Kink and Lifestyle Fetish Night & Play Party

21 & older only

Just $15 per person if thru the door before 10pm or $20 per person later.

A Kink and Lifestyle Fetish Night / Play Party

The party welcomes a mix of both kink and lifestyle (swinger) so can get pretty intimate. All genders and orientations are welcome so long as you are 21 & over with legal ID (there is a bar). Please be respectful & tolerant of different views … if there is any issue, notify a Party Host or Dungeon Monitor.

There are multiple suspension hardpoints, spanking benches, crosses, and other areas available for play or dance to the delicious music – the entire club is open for your enjoyment. While the club allows sex on premises, there is no guarantee of sex! Treat others with kindness & respect and always get enthusiastic consent.

The party is great for the experienced, the curious, exhibitionists, and voyeurs. If interested in learning more about something during the party, ask a Party Host or Dungeon Monitor.

Plan for a crowd and leave toys which require a lot of space (long whips, etc) at home. Because of the diversity of those attending, this party is not appropriate for extreme/edgy kink play. While the party staff works hard to make this a safe space, please play responsibly and think hard before engaging in play that might be overly traumatic if there is an inadvertent interruption. While the club has some limited space for toy bag storage the best plan is to bring just what you expect to use. Please keep scenes to a reasonable duration so that others have a chance to play as well and move aftercare to a couch whenever possible (multiple scenes during the night are fine, so long as you break between each so that others have the opportunity to use the space).


● Don’t be a dick:  

    ■ Treat others with kindness & respect
    ■ Be a responsible adult
    ■ Clean up after yourself (cleaning supplies are provided)
    ■ Don’t be creepy
    ■ Don’t move furniture
    ■ Don’t monopolize a play station

● Do not interrupt those who are playing & ask before touching

● NO PERSONAL PHOTOS & NO PHONES – Phones may only be used in the stairway or outside the building

● No weapons (guns/knives/etc)

● No blood/urine/etc

● No fire/wax/etc

● No breath play

● Obey the Dungeon Monitors


▪ ■ █ **DRESS TO IMPRESS!** █ ■ ▪

Attire which will impress:

● Sexy – Lingerie / Body Paint / Mesh

● Fetish – Leather / Latex / PVC / Chainmail / Rope

● Goth / Steampunk

● All Black

– – As Bare As You Dare! – –

Clothing which does not impress:

● Street Clothes – Basic Jeans / T-Shirts / etc

● Work Clothes – Dirty / Torn / etc

● Athletic Wear / Hoodies

● Baseball or Stocking Caps

● Shorts

● Sandals / Flip-flops / Tennis Shoes


Just $15 per person if thru the door before 10pm or $20 per person later … there may be a line so plan your arrival accordingly. There is no membership fee at Sanctuary.

** Doors open at 9:00pm, please do not arrive before then as staff are still setting up. **


** Personal photography and mobile phones are not allowed at Luv Hurtz. **

We try to have a staff photographer at the party (easily located wearing a Staff Photographer badge on a light-up blue lanyard) – check in with them before you play to get a wristband if you would like photos. Photos are only taken with prior consent (those who have obtained and are wearing a wristband). A couple weeks after the party all photos will be posted to a password protected shared gallery online – the password to the gallery is printed on the wristband for that month’s party.

Apr 7 @ 1:00 pm – 6:00 pm

Worship at our altar.

Games, music, sacrilegious pornography! Please come dressed in your best goth/satanic/catholic, lingerie, costumes, church clothes. Hosted by your deviant Goddess Meaghan Scott.

-Abomination Station
Create mutant stuffed animals laughing in the face of intelligent design.
-Beginners yoga class with Sexy Jessi
-Hott Scotty’s catering with high-end cocktail snacks.
-Bloody Mary and Bloody Maria bar!
-Katrina Martin will be on hand for $1 a minute massages!
-DJ Cockstorm

$5 entry

Sanctuary is LGBTQ+, ADA, 21+.

Dangerous Women’s Collective: Ask Men!
Apr 10 @ 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm

Dangerous Women’s Collective

Second Wednesdays

Our April gathering will feature an anonymous panel of men who will answer ALL of your questions: relationship, sex, sexuality, grooming … no topic is taboo!

The Dangerous Women’s Collective (DWC) is for female identified people who are exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy.

We gather once a month to connect, drink drinks, and be ourselves even more brazenly than usual.

DWC events provide a supportive environment for more experienced women to share knowledge, resources, and anecdotes with those who are new to non-monogamy. 

Group icebreaker will kick-off between 7:00 – 7:30 PM

Please extend this invitation to like-minded, female-identified friends! 

LGBTQ+, People of Color, and female-identified people of all backgrounds are welcomed and embraced. Sanctuary is an ADA compliant venue.