Game Bang! Blanket Fort Night
Apr 24 @ 8:00 pm – Apr 25 @ 12:00 am

BRING YOUR OWN BLANKETS! Best fort gets bragging rights and the grand prize: a shitty bottle of booze. We’re not saying its that bottle of bacon vodka that keeps getting re-gifted to all your friend’s house parties… but it might be that very same bottle.

Onesies, kigurumis and pajamas are encouraged.

Welcome to Game Bang!
…where we play a variety of sexy games while making connections with a variety of sexy people!
Most games at Game Bang! Feature stripping, cuddling, kissing, stroking, and all manner of fun “truth or dare” type aspects. Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very well, there are a few extra guidelines we ask you to follow while having fun.

General Guidelines and Etiquette:

1. We want everyone to feel empowered and safe in Sanctuary. To facilitate a comfortable atmosphere, please let us know if you feel uncomfortable. We have a lot of experience and success moving forward through communication and teaching the consent process. Please keep in mind that even the most well-intentioned person can make a mistake around consent.

2. Social dares are not mandatory, and pressuring others to participate is very discouraged.

3. In fact, NO DARE is mandatory. Rules exist to facilitate games and provide opportunities for fun and connection, but are not expected to be followed verbatim. Ask your hosts for suggestions if you don’t feel like doing something as written.

4. Always put power into the hands of the most vulnerable person in any interaction! (Example: “Where would you like to be touched?” instead of “Where can I touch?”)

5. Be mindful of the physical, mental and emotional state of others. Perhaps someone has had a family emergency recently, had a bad day, or are simply feeling extra vulnerable today. Sometimes these things happen during the evening. Just because someone did something once, does not give implied consent in the future.

6. In line with mindfulness, remember that many people on game nights know each other or have met before. If you see an intimate interaction between others where consent is not clearly communicated, it does not give anyone else permission to do the same. Always assume that others have communicated consent. If you have concerns, please bring them to your hosts and they will look into it.

7. Please do not suggest others try things you want them to do. If someone seems confused or needs help on a choice, help them through empowerment. Find out what it is they want and encourage them to do it.
Game Bang is a weekly game night at Sanctuary. Come nerd out with your fellow kinksters. The games will change week to week but will probably include Janky Jenga and Cards Against Humanity. Feel free to bring your own games too!

Only $5. 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA
Sanctuary is located at 33 NW 9th Ave above Splash Bar, enter on 9th.


50 Shades of STFU!
Apr 25 @ 8:00 pm – Apr 26 @ 1:30 am

50 Shades of STFU, Every 4th Thursday

8pm – 1:30am   $10   21+

Spank the patriarchy at the hottest femdom party in Portland. Organized by pro-domme and BDSM coach Mistress Viola, 50 Shades of STFU is a kinky play party, social event, and performance venue for fem tops and the individuals who serve and worship them. We aim to create an inclusive space for LGBTQ, pansexual, queer, or straight subs and their fem tops.

If you’re a cis male dom this is really not the event for you. If you wanna switch it up and explore your subby side you are welcome to come. Check your entitlement at the door & see dress code.
There are no tastings at this event but it is a great place to meet fem tops who want to play and solo subs looking to be of service.
Playspaces, St. Andrews cross, semi-private areas, spanking benches, and hard points available.
This is a party to encourage and fuel fem tops and those who are interested in being submissive to them. We aim to be inclusive while encouraging attendees to dress the part, this is to create a safe space for this community to explore. We are looking to avoid gawkers or entitled dude tourists.
Fems can dress to impress as they wish (fetish wear encouraged).
Female subs encouraged to present as such as well.
Male attendees are required to dress to express their interest in fem dominance, even in some small way: fetish wear, collars, cuffs, high heels, fetish shoes, hoods, crossdressed, glamour, make-up, uniforms*, leather, PVC, lingerie, formal wear, leashes, puppy or animal costumes, sweet jammies, cute underpants, bow ties, bunny ears, etc.
Cisgendered male attendees will not be allowed in the club in plain street clothes.
For first-timers, black clothing and nice underwear are acceptable. If you have nothing to wear, we will give you a nametag to identify as: submissive, slave, sub-curious, etc.
Attendees will not move about the space nude unless part of an active scene. 
*Racist/fascist symbols and uniforms are not allowed in the club.
  • Do not interrupt scenes!
  • Do not get too close to play scenes or ask to be involved.
  • Always negotiate boundaries before playing!
  • Play is encouraged but NEVER expected of anyone.
  • Safe, sane, and 100% consensual play only.
  • Dungeon Monitors will be present and monitoring all scenes.
  • Aggressive cruising will not be tolerated. Be aware of the space and energy you are taking when you hover or get near a play scene.
  • CONSENT CONSENT CONSENT. Do not touch another person or their property without their explicit permission. No means no. Do not get pushy or aggressive. This behavior will be grounds for being asked to leave the club.
  • Attendees will not move about the space nude unless part of an active scene. 
  • No blood play, urine play, hot wax, vomit, scat, fire, knife play, guns, or breathplay. The DMs will end scenes including these actions.
  • Attendees will respect the Dungeon Monitors, hostess Mistress Viola, security, and Sanctuary staff and follow the rules and instructions.
  • No drugs or outside alcohol allowed.
  • No audio or video recording devices are allowed.
  • Cell phones may only be used outside or in the outer hallway. NO PHOTOS ALLOWED. If we see you taking photos you will be asked to leave.
  • Limit your play scenes to 45 mins as to allow time for others to use the play areas, suspension points and dungeon furniture as there are limited areas.
  • Clean furniture and play equipment before and after scenes. There are cleaning supplies provided by the club.
  • Do not move play furniture without discussing with DM or Mistress Viola first.
  • If you feel someone is misbehaving, being aggressive, or making you or someone else feel uncomfortable, please let the DMs, hostess Mistress Viola or club staff know ASAP and we will do what we can to inform the individual or have them removed.
  • Use of the word “safeword” is a call for assistance. DMs and/or other experienced players will intervene and come to your aid when they hear it.
Jiffy Kink: Speed Dating
Apr 26 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm

Jiffy Kink™ Speed Dating is social gathering hosted by Mistress Bliss designed to help kinky (and kink-curious) people meet new friends and potential play partners.

When you arrive, you’ll self-identify as a Top, Bottom, Switch, or Exploring. Prepare to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity is welcome here! You’ll have 3 minutes with a new potential friend to tell each other “what lights you up”. Mistress Bliss and her sexy assistants will tabulate your matches and with the hopes of your finding new friends and potential play mates.

Experienced tasters will be there to address your questions about consent and negotiation too.

Your $20 admission includes the door fee to the “Meet & Greet -Kink Edition” later that evening.

Rules: Kindness, consent, and a willingness to meet new friends and have new adventures! Also, don’t be a dick. If you can’t spend 3 minutes talking to a stranger who may not share your kinks, preferred partner gender, or whatever else you are looking for from a play partner, then this event is NOT for you. Although fetish wear is strongly encouraged, feel free to dress (or undress) in whatever makes you feel sexy.]

Sanctuary is LGBTQ+, 21+, ADA.  Enter on Ninth

Meet & Greet w/ DJ Ceez
Apr 26 @ 9:00 pm – Apr 27 @ 2:00 am

No pressure, low door fee. Win-Win.

$10 – Before 10 p.m.
$20 after 10

Dj Ceez has played everywhere and opened for everyone. You might remember him from Afterglow 2019 or Glow Job 2018

Dress code: be presentable.

Expect to interact.

Value individuality over labels.

Sanctuary is and always will be a safe place for and supporters of the LGBTQ+ community.

Consent is a requirement for play and interaction.

ADA accessible. 21+

Superheroes vs Villains – Bar Crawl – Portland OR
Apr 27 @ 6:00 pm – Apr 28 @ 2:00 am

What Anime, Hero or Villain will you be April 27th? 🤔

Start getting creative & find your perfect superhero costume for the Superheroes vs Villains Bar Crawl 2019!

Pre-Sale Wristbands are on sale now!! Get yours ASAP! We’re expecting 800+ people and we will Only have (50) $25 VIP Line Skip Wristbands available.

Got tickets??? Share this event page!


Wristbands get you:
– Access to ALL clubs on the crawl
– Discounted Drinks at every bar
– Discounted Food at participating bars
– Access to the exclusive Afterparties (2)
– Free Jell-O shot at the first bar

Clubs included:

– Splash Ultra Lounge
– Sanctuary
– Shake
– Dirty Nightlife
– Paris Theatre
– Spyce (Exclusive Afterparty)

Wanna see a club on here??? Text (360) 798-0991

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, Enter on Ninth

Supersluts: Heroes & Villains
Apr 27 @ 9:00 pm – 2:30 am
Dress like your favorite superhero or supervillain!
Slutgarden Djs will keep your capes flapping and your boots stomping.
This is a fundraiser for Slutgarden (https://www.facebook.com/slutgarden1/)
$15 presale
$20 in costume
$30 dressed like a citizen
$40 dressed like a clown
Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, Enter on Ninth. 
Game Bang!
May 1 @ 8:00 pm – May 2 @ 12:00 am

You wanted all the games. You played all the games.
Lets play games, meet and have fun…

Our hosts will guide you through a safe, playful evening of games including Codeword, Cards Against Humanity, Settlers of Catan, Red Flags, Naughty Jenga, Monkeyspank, etc.

$5 per person

Open to all (21+) in the sex-positive, LGBTQ+ community and their allies.

Sanctuary is located at 33 NW Ninth above Splash Bar, enter on ninth

Compact: Femme Dance Party
May 2 @ 9:00 pm – May 3 @ 2:00 am

This space celebrates the femmes, fem, feminine, fierce, and the fantasy. Break the binaries and define your boundaries.



$10 cover or bring a new makeup item that will be donated to SMYRC and get in for FREE. Makeup donations in exchange for cover are only accepted till 11pm.

21+ only


Meet & Greet
May 3 @ 9:00 pm – May 4 @ 2:00 am

No pressure, low door fee. Win-Win.

$10 – Before 10 p.m.
$20 after 10

Dress code: be presentable.

Expect to interact.

Value individuality over labels.

Sanctuary is and always will be a safe place for and supporters of the LGBTQ+ community.

Consent is a requirement for play and interaction.

ADA accessible. 21+

Luv Hurtz
May 4 @ 9:00 pm – May 5 @ 2:00 am

Luv Hurtz

First Saturdays / 9pm to 2am

A Kink and Lifestyle Fetish Night & Play Party

21 & older only

Just $15 per person if thru the door before 10pm or $20 per person later.

A Kink and Lifestyle Fetish Night / Play Party

The party welcomes a mix of both kink and lifestyle (swinger) so can get pretty intimate. All genders and orientations are welcome so long as you are 21 & over with legal ID (there is a bar). Please be respectful & tolerant of different views … if there is any issue, notify a Party Host or Dungeon Monitor.

There are multiple suspension hardpoints, spanking benches, crosses, and other areas available for play or dance to the delicious music – the entire club is open for your enjoyment. While the club allows sex on premises, there is no guarantee of sex! Treat others with kindness & respect and always get enthusiastic consent.

The party is great for the experienced, the curious, exhibitionists, and voyeurs. If interested in learning more about something during the party, ask a Party Host or Dungeon Monitor.

Plan for a crowd and leave toys which require a lot of space (long whips, etc) at home. Because of the diversity of those attending, this party is not appropriate for extreme/edgy kink play. While the party staff works hard to make this a safe space, please play responsibly and think hard before engaging in play that might be overly traumatic if there is an inadvertent interruption. While the club has some limited space for toy bag storage the best plan is to bring just what you expect to use. Please keep scenes to a reasonable duration so that others have a chance to play as well and move aftercare to a couch whenever possible (multiple scenes during the night are fine, so long as you break between each so that others have the opportunity to use the space).


● Don’t be a dick:  

    ■ Treat others with kindness & respect
    ■ Be a responsible adult
    ■ Clean up after yourself (cleaning supplies are provided)
    ■ Don’t be creepy
    ■ Don’t move furniture
    ■ Don’t monopolize a play station

● Do not interrupt those who are playing & ask before touching

● NO PERSONAL PHOTOS & NO PHONES – Phones may only be used in the stairway or outside the building

● No weapons (guns/knives/etc)

● No blood/urine/etc

● No fire/wax/etc

● No breath play

● Obey the Dungeon Monitors


▪ ■ █ **DRESS TO IMPRESS!** █ ■ ▪

Attire which will impress:

● Sexy – Lingerie / Body Paint / Mesh

● Fetish – Leather / Latex / PVC / Chainmail / Rope

● Goth / Steampunk

● All Black

– – As Bare As You Dare! – –

Clothing which does not impress:

● Street Clothes – Basic Jeans / T-Shirts / etc

● Work Clothes – Dirty / Torn / etc

● Athletic Wear / Hoodies

● Baseball or Stocking Caps

● Shorts

● Sandals / Flip-flops / Tennis Shoes


Just $15 per person if thru the door before 10pm or $20 per person later … there may be a line so plan your arrival accordingly. There is no membership fee at Sanctuary.

** Doors open at 9:00pm, please do not arrive before then as staff are still setting up. **


** Personal photography and mobile phones are not allowed at Luv Hurtz. **

We try to have a staff photographer at the party (easily located wearing a Staff Photographer badge on a light-up blue lanyard) – check in with them before you play to get a wristband if you would like photos. Photos are only taken with prior consent (those who have obtained and are wearing a wristband). A couple weeks after the party all photos will be posted to a password protected shared gallery online – the password to the gallery is printed on the wristband for that month’s party.