Spank the patriarchy at the newest femdom party in Portland (now every fourth Thursday)! Organized by pro-domme and BDSM coach Mistress Viola, Fifty Shades of STFU is a kinky play party, social event, and performance venue for femme-identified dominants, kinky queerdos, LGBT & genderqueer dommes and their devoted playmates, service submissives, and slaves. If you’re a femme top looking to explore your dominance and meet other femme tops and eager submissives, this is the event for you! Or if you just want to dip a toe in, be a voyeur, and watch the fierceness unfold…
Dress code:Fetish, leather, latex, collars, hoods, crossdressing! Dress to impress!
*** No cis males allowed in wearing basic street clothes ***
All shades of submissive and exploring individuals are encouraged to attend. There will be lots of play demos (not tastings) from experienced fem dommes. Well behaved service submissives will be in service to the party.
If you’re a cis male dom this is really not the event for you. If you wanna switch it up and explore your subby side you are welcome to come. Check your entitlement at the door.
There are no tastings at this event but it is a great place to meet dominant femmes who want to play and vice versa.
DRESS CODE: Male submissives or bottoms are encouraged to present as such, even in some small way: collars, hoods, crossdressed, or in various forms of fetishwear. Doing so will increase the likelihood of getting attention from the dommes in attendance, but one should not expect or demand attention in any way from the dominants.
Cisgendered male attendees will not be allowed in the club in plain street clothes. If you have nothing to wear, we will give you a nametag to identify as: submissive, slave, sub-curious, etc. We are looking to avoid gawkers or tourists.
Playspaces, St. Andrews Cross, semi-private areas, spanking benches, and hard points available.
Contact Mistress Viola at firstname.lastname@example.org to inquire about performing (performances between 8:30 and 9:30pm to kick the night off), DMing (femme or LGBT DMs only), or being a featured service submissive for the party.
OFFICIAL PARTY RULES OF ENGAGEMENT:
*Do not interrupt scenes!
*Do not get too close to play scenes or ask to be involved.
*Always negotiate boundaries before playing!
*Play is encouraged but NEVER expected of anyone.
*Safe, sane, and 100% consensual play only.
*Dungeon Monitors will be present and monitoring all scenes.
*OBEY THE DM’S!
*Aggressive cruising will not be tolerated. Be aware of the space and energy you are taking when you hover or get near a play scene.
*CONSENT CONSENT CONSENT. Do not touch another person or their property without their explicit permission. No means no. Do not get pushy or aggressive. This behavior will be grounds for being asked to leave the club.
*Individuals who are not in fetishwear or part of active play scenes shall not be nude while moving about the space.
*No blood play, urine play, hot wax, vomit, scat, fire, knife play, guns, or breathplay. The DMs will end scenes including these actions.
*Attendees will respect the Dungeon Monitors, hostess Mistress Viola, security, and Sanctuary staff and follow the rules and instructions.
*No drugs or outside alcohol allowed.
*No audio or video recording devices are allowed.
*Cell phones may only be used outside or in the outer hallway. NO PHOTOS ALLOWED. If we see you taking photos you will be asked to leave.
*Limit your play scenes to 45 mins as to allow time for others to use the play areas, suspension points and dungeon furniture as there are limited areas.
*Clean furniture and play equipment before and after scenes. There are cleaning supplies provided by the club.
*Do not move play furniture without discussing with DM or Mistress Viola first.
*If you feel someone is misbehaving, being aggressive, or making you or someone else feel uncomfortable, please let the DMs, hostess Mistress Viola or club staff know ASAP and we will do what we can to inform the individual or have them removed.
*Use of the word “safeword” is a call for assistance. DMs and/or other experienced players will intervene and come to your aid when they hear it.