Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Welcome to the Soft Parade.  Lets get slow, quiet, and intimate.  This night is for those who feel the bright lights, crowds, and music of a nightclub can be sensory overload Soft Parade will feature low music, low lighting, and limited visuals for a different kind of night out. We will focus on intentional sensual […]

Your favorite Wednesday event is back – with black lights! Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure…don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.   $10 cash/$12 CC cover     Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very […]

Knowing how to tie a knot is easy. Figuring out how to turn those knots into a seamless, experience with another person without accidentally killing the vibe? That’s the hard part. Come watch us do a live, unscripted rope scene while we say the quiet parts out loud. We’re putting our communication on display so […]

Presented by Miss Josie This month, we’re trading the paddles for safety whistles. 🏖️ Whether you’re a helpless swimmer looking to be rescued or a certified babe on duty ready to enforce the rules, the tower is watching. Remember: there is absolutely no running by the pool… unless you want to get caught and disciplined. […]

🍑 Speed Spanking gives everyone an opportunity to play! It’s like speed dating with the added element of hand-only spanking. Impact tops can meet impact bottoms and spank for one-minute rounds. 🍑 What to expect: We begin with a brief primer on spanking. Staff (usually Bliss & violet) explain and demonstrate various techniques. Each participant […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]