Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

November 5, 2026, 7:00 – 9:00 pm Peer Support Discussion We welcome you to BroadCast – Sanctuary’s monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women, fem-identifying, genderqueer, and gender expansive folks who find a home in women’s spaces and who are living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla […]

Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why Bi-Night when every night is kind of already Bi-Night? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]

Hear ye, hear ye! 📜 Ren-Fucking-Faire is here to tell you Winter Is Coming! Dragons, Dragon Queens, White Walkers and the like are waiting in the shadows…. Assemble in numbers and prepare for the long night! Featuring Performances, Kink Tastings, interactive experiences, the return of Dick Jousting, and more! We have several interactive experiences taking […]

Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland’s sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream.” Whether you’re a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]

Get the kink you’ve been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary’s numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]

JP Hardy & Matt Bearracuda present TREASURE TRAIL: 15 Buck Fuck A Portland Play Party Event Details Grab a wristband when you walk in: Red wristband TOP Blue wristband VERS Green wristband BOTTOM White wristband SIDE TIX: https://www.sickening.events/e/treasure-trail-portland/tickets Treasure Trail is a sexy and intimate play party in Downtown Portland. Consent is mandatory and only […]