Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Class Description: Scenes are made and broken by how you adapt to the unexpected. Sometimes this means heading off or recovering from a major problem, but much more often it’s small things. Did you notice that the other person is having a harder time than usual with one of their favorite toys? Why did you […]

Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland’s sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream.” Whether you’re a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]

Get the kink you’ve been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary’s numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]

Get the kink you’ve been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary’s numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]

We have decided to postpone this event until October. After the Sapphic Discussion on the 28th, it became clear there are some seemingly incongruent ideas and overlapping groups to work through. In the end, we’d rather be right than fast. (Also — two of the hosts we planned to use are unavailable this weekend. That […]

Time your strikes to the beat of the music! Relax, Sing, & Play to your hearts content! Kandy has the worst kept secret ever- She fucking loves karaoke Join her while she makes her dreams come true, and KJ’s their first Karaoke set! Waiting for your turn to sing? Utilize the play spaces for the […]