Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Bringing to you a queer pole night, Sanctuary Strip hosted by Mazikeen Del Santo aka @theeblxckrxbbxt. 🪩There will be 12 Pre Booked Dancers for the night!🪩 👠Open Pole will be available for all before the first set, intermission and after the show ends. Sign Up forms will be available at the front desk. If you are […]

Let’s have a talk about race and its presence in kink. For example, how does the power connected to our intersectional identities, and race, in particular inform our D/s dynamics in ways we may not even realize? How do we understand power complexly in kink informed by anti-blackness, colonialism, genocide, incarcaration/interment, patriarchy, and white supremacy? […]

Whats better than games? Games with your PJs on. Wear your favorite pajamas… or your least favorite… or none at all.   Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very well, there are a few extra guidelines we ask you to follow while having fun. General […]

Honk Honk! It’s time for FUNGEON (Fun Dungeon) a QTBIPOC Kink and Dance Party for Clowns, Mimes and all circus folk alike. This party is open to all respectful humans. Hosted by Witch Prince Asylum and Anna Nicole Spliff If a clown gives you head is it called Big Top? There will be pop up […]

This class dives into the real-life logistics of shared play beyond the duo. Whether you’re exploring your first sexy threesome, navigating a group cuddle-pile, or planning the epic orgy of your dreams. We will unpack what it takes to create experiences that are hot, honest, harmonious, and human. Expect a mix of practical tools and […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]