Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Get ready to elevate your typical “Netflix and Chill” night with Stream N’ Steam—an immersive, erotic, and indulgent experience that combines at-home film flings with the excitement of public group play! You are invited to come take Sin-ema to provocative new heights with this exclusive, adults-only event! Stream N’ Steam is a bi-monthly event that […]

🌼🌈 Hey everyone! 🌈🌼 It’s that time again – get ready for our March Spring Edition of the Kinky Queer ENM Meet and Greet! 🎉 Let’s cum together to celebrate unity, connection, and all the fabulousness that comes with the arrival of spring. Whether you’re new to the scene or a familiar face, this is […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Presented by Mx Bliss   Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here! Out of respect for other attendees, please note that we expect you to dress up/make an effort. If you look like you’re headed out to a […]

Latex, gold lame, silky fabrics, and metallic body suits? What makes you sparkle like a diamond? This is your chance to wear that ‘fit that is just a bit TOO MUCH. Over the top looks appreciated. Fetish, leather, black, and lingerie always welcome but please make an effort to look and feel your best. This […]

Presented by Queerky Come dance and play among fellow transgender kinksters at Sanctuary’s Trans kink party – Trans*cenDance. Allies welcome, but no chasers. Enjoy Sanctuary’s numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches, and dance floor. Kink, sex, and dancing encouraged. Consent is mandatory. Cash: $10 before 10pm, $20 after CC: $12 before 10pm, $22 after […]