Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Come celebrate our residency at Sanctuary! Every third Sunday! Read below for more info!  Required dress code: black  Sensual Dance presents THE SUMMONING: a Dark Sensual Dance event designed by dancers for dancers as a sensual, no-sex-allowed dance journey! Singles and couples friendly! Poly & Monogamy friendly! Partner/fusion dancers, solo/ecstatic dancers, and dance-curious kink community […]

Presented by Faye By popular demand, get goth, emo, scene, and truly hate the sun! Dance and go medieval on that ass! Featuring DJ Lu $10 Cash/$12 CC in goth attire — including anything black or kinda spooky. $20/22 street clothes. Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity.

Bringing to you a queer pole night, Sanctuary Strip hosted by Mazikeen Del Santo aka @theeblxckrxbbxt. 🪩There will be 12 Pre Booked Dancers for the night!🪩 👠Open Pole will be available for all before the first set, intermission and after the show ends. Sign Up forms will be available at the front desk. If you are […]

Whats better than games? Games with your PJs on. Wear your favorite pajamas… or your least favorite… or none at all.   Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very well, there are a few extra guidelines we ask you to follow while having fun. General […]

💄Welcome to FEMPOWER 💄 hosted by Miss B FemPower is Sanctuary’s night for Femdoms and Fem Tops to take the lead and be celebrated. This isn’t your average play party! Everything and everyone are centered on feminine power, women’s desires, and female-led dynamics. Come to socialize, play, perform, watch, and sharpen your skills alongside other confident, […]

Come explore the softer, slower, teasing side of impact play in this 2-hour beginner-friendly, hands-on workshop all about sensation, connection, and anticipation. We’ll spend less time sitting and more time doing as we explore intentional touch, spanking, rhythm, pacing, pauses, communication, and how to blend them together into sensual impact. No experience? Perfect. We’re starting […]