Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Laughter is the best foreplay. Portland’s longest-running & filthiest monthly comedy showcase! Hosted by Amanda Lynn Deal 21+, $10 Two-drink minimum Featuring TBA   All door sales go to the comedians. Doors at 7 PM, show at 8 PM Please show the performers and those around you proper courtesy and do not heckle or chat […]

Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best dance Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and […]

BDSM 101: Foundations For Newcomers Presents Rope 101 with ShesANatural! The Offering Strappado: A forward-facing strappado variation in which the forearms are bound together to create a unified point of presentation. The position naturally invites stillness, intentional posture, and the psychological experience of offering. This tie emphasizes structure through the center line while encouraging awareness […]

Come celebrate our residency at Sanctuary! Every third Sunday! Read below for more info!  Required dress code: black  Sensual Dance presents THE SUMMONING: a Dark Sensual Dance event designed by dancers for dancers as a sensual, no-sex-allowed dance journey! Singles and couples friendly! Poly & Monogamy friendly! Partner/fusion dancers, solo/ecstatic dancers, and dance-curious kink community […]

Presented by Faye By popular demand, get goth, emo, scene, and truly hate the sun! Dance and go medieval on that ass!   $10 Cash/$12 CC in goth attire — including anything black or kinda spooky. $20/22 street clothes. Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity.

If you’re looking for an exciting way to explore your desires and connect with like-minded individuals, come join us at our upcoming PickUp Play Mixer by Kandy! Doors open at 630! First visit the lanyard station! Pick out a color coded lanyard to show others your Comfort level: 💚Green(GO!)- Ready to Negotiate 💛Yellow(Proceed w/ Caution) […]