Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Get ready to elevate your typical “Netflix and Chill” night with Stream N’ Steam—an immersive, erotic, and indulgent experience that combines at-home film flings with the excitement of public group play! You are invited to come take Sin-ema to provocative new heights with this exclusive, adults-only event! Stream N’ Steam is a bi-monthly event that […]

Switchinatrix – Harnessing Your Power as a Switch Switchinatrix is a class that is an exploration into authentically celebrating your “unconventional” self to enjoying kink & intimacy from every angle! Being switchy or versatile allows us to have so many different roles & experiences! Why be just a Top when you can be EVERYTHING (or […]

Find out if the grass is greener on the other side of the slash! Presented by @ElectraShock with @The_Lady_V, @JamieLove_PDX and friends Ready to mix it up? Whether you’re a seasoned Switch, or you’ve lived on one side of the slash for years, it’s time to play your Uno Reverse card and say “Switch, Please!” This is the night for […]

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]

We welcome you to BroadCast: BroadCast is Sanctuary’s monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women’s spaces and who are living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla ways of being in the world.   We are a unique […]

Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why Bi-Night when every night is kind of already Bi-Night? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]