Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Josie has been a host of Spanktuary since the beginning. Come and say goodbye to her last Spanktuary as host Josie: Spanktuary has been intertwined with my path in the kink world for almost seven years. To say it transformed my life is an understatement. The education, the community, and the people I’ve met here […]

🍑 Speed Spanking gives everyone an opportunity to play! It’s like speed dating with the added element of hand-only spanking. Impact tops can meet impact bottoms and spank for one-minute rounds. 🍑 What to expect: We begin with a brief primer on spanking. Staff (usually Bliss & violet) explain and demonstrate various techniques. Each participant […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

**Boundless Rope Experience w/ Class on Pain Management (from both sides of the rope) Please join us for the Boundless Rope Experience (“BRE”) Schedule: Doors Open: 3pm Class: 3:30-4:30pm Tie & Lab: 4:30-5:45pm Closing circle: 5:45pm Class Description: Pain Management from Both Sides of the Rope In this class, we’re gonna talk about pain–the good consensual […]

Laughter is the best foreplay. Portland’s longest-running & filthiest monthly comedy showcase! Hosted by Amanda Lynn Deal 21+, $10 Two-drink minimum Featuring Ms. Newman Colin Mattox Josh Larsen Tyler Dean Forest Ember Sofiya Alexandra   All door sales go to the comedians. Doors at 7 PM, show at 8 PM Please show the performers and […]

Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best dance Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and […]