Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Blanket Fort night! BRING YOUR OWN BLANKETS! Best fort gets bragging rights and prizes: We’re not saying its that bottle of bacon vodka that keeps getting re-gifted to all your friend’s house parties… but it might be that very same bottle. Onesies, kigurumis and pajamas are encouraged. 21+ Welcome to Game Bang! …where we play […]

💄Welcome to FEMPOWER 💄 hosted by Miss B and Princess Puta FemPower is Sanctuary’s night for Femdoms and Fem Tops to take the lead and be celebrated. This isn’t a typical kinky play party! Everything and everyone are centered on feminine power and female-led dynamics. Come to socialize, play, perform, watch, and sharpen your skills alongside other […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

DM training

The 17th-annual Sumerween is Halloween in the summer because October is too F-ing cold. Tix: https://members.pdxsanctuary.com/events/92197 All those outfits you didnt wear because they were impractical in the rain, you can wear them or not wear them now. Featuring  DJ Pleasure Cruise & Rooster There will be NO STREET CLOTHES allowed at this event. This […]

Presented by Blue This experiential, consent-centered class is designed to demonstrate erotic genital massage for those who want to deepen intimacy, communication, and embodied connection through the art of erotic touch. Together, we’ll explore how presence, breath, and intention can transform touch into a more connected and nourishing experience. The class will include nude live […]