Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

💄Welcome to FEMPOWER 💄 hosted by Alaska Moon Kat Fempower is the way the world should be, a celebration of all things fem — dominant, creative, radiant, kinky, and free. Fempower is about providing a safe place, without the influence of the Patriarchy or male-dominated sexuality, to really explore what it means to be a sexually empowered […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Presented by the spirit of Buckmaster, the Vampire Queen of the Underworld 🪩 Eat your heart out! 💔 #VampireOrgy #BloodyValentine @pdxsanctuary – True love never dies 💔 Celebrate undying love & undead lovers with a special Bloody Valentine edition of the cult classic party : Vampire 0rgy. 🔮#VampireOrgy is a fetish / filth / freak […]

Presented by  Yes Coach You’re cordially invited to Kink Codes at Sanctuary, where shadows dance and desires roam free under the cover of night. Step into a world veiled in mystery, where the secret language of gay hanky code is on display, and every color tells a story of passion and longing. Prepare to lose yourself in […]

Ren Fucking Faire Let’s face it everyone. We all know the venn diagram of people who are interested in kink and Renfaire is basically a circle. So join Kandy Goddess as she dons her Crown once again for: Ren fucking Faire hosted at Sanctuary PDX! This night at Sanctuary will be about letting your kinky […]

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]