Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Blanket Fort night! BRING YOUR OWN BLANKETS! Best fort gets bragging rights and prizes: We’re not saying its that bottle of bacon vodka that keeps getting re-gifted to all your friend’s house parties… but it might be that very same bottle. Onesies, kigurumis and pajamas are encouraged. 21+ Welcome to Game Bang! …where we play […]

💄Welcome to FEMPOWER 💄 hosted by Princess Puta & Miss B   FemPower is Sanctuary’s night for Femdoms and Fem Tops to take the lead and be celebrated. This isn’t your average play party! Everything and everyone are centered on feminine power, women’s desires, and female-led dynamics. Come to socialize, play, perform, watch, and sharpen your skills alongside […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Presented by Mx Bliss   Special end of Price month celebration   Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here! Out of respect for other attendees, please note that we expect you to dress up/make an effort. If you […]

Presented by MX Bliss. Special end of Pride month edition! Show us your pride! Whether queer, trans, BIPOC, BDSM, Poly, or an ally, dress up in pride colors and flag your hankies. Let’s see all your rainbows, bandanas and ways you represent your identity and support those in marginalized communities. Donation proceeds from glow bracelets […]

Presented by Queerky PDX – join our discord server: https://discord.gg/pgFGM6Pdqw TranscenDance is a recurring BDSM play party put on by and for trans (and non-binary) kinksters. DJ’s, dancing, BDSM and sex spaces, kink tastings, and lots of cuties! TranscenDance occurs monthly on the fourth Sunday of each month with rotating themes and is held at Sanctuary […]