Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Join us for a night of mysticism and debauchery, surrounded by fellow trans & non-binary freaks & deviants, fae and goblins at Fabled Freaks, a high fantasy themed TranscenDance event. TranscenDance is a recurring BDSM play party put on by and for trans (and non-binary) kinksters. DJ’s, dancing, BDSM and sex spaces, kink tastings, and […]

Men who are naturists, join us for a special Summer Solstice Naked event on Tuesday, June 30,   Yes, we know it’s not actually the summer solstice, but June 30 is close enough, and we’re never ones to pass up an opportunity to celebrate the arrival of summer and getting naked with other men! We […]

🌈🎉 Get Ready to Celebrate Your True Self! 🎉🌈 Join us for another unforgettable edition of the Kinky Queer ENM Meet and Greet! This time, we’re turning up the excitement on Wednesday, July 1st at 7 PM, and we couldn’t be more thrilled to team up with Game Bang for a special event that promises to ignite […]

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]

We welcome you to BroadCast: BroadCast is Sanctuary’s monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women’s spaces and who are living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla ways of being in the world.   We are a unique […]

Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why Bi-Night when every night is kind of already Bi-Night? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]