November 2022
Game Bang: Massage Night
Come as you are for a night celebrating the Good Touch side of kink: massage, sensory play, aftercare, tipping your bartender. Hearth will be hosting free massage demos and tutorials all night, with spare tables open for all to use. Dont like massages? Play games like a normal Game Bang! 21+ $10. Welcome to Game Bang! ...where we play a variety of sexy games while making connections with a variety of sexy people! Most games at Game Bang! Feature stripping,…
Find out more »December 2022
BroadCast: Holiday Photos
Announcing BroadCast's next event on Thursday, December 1, 7:00 - 9:00 pm - this one is not to be missed! BroadCast is Sanctuary's monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women's spaces. Bring your sexy selves and your phones/cameras to snap some unique one-of-a-kind opportunity pictures of yourself at Sanctuary at our next event on Thursday, December 1. This is a terrific opportunity to get some shots to update your…
Find out more »Bi Night
Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! **Now with more Emo soundtrack - by request!** We hear it constantly: Being bi can be hard. How do you make the approach? Are they just being friendly? How might it affect my other partners? How will I be judged? This night is for bi men, bi women, and non-binary people who have bucked the system and made all the punny titles hard. Dance, chill, be comfortable. As always, there are no expectations of play…
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The Missing Kink
Get the kink you've been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! Remember: Sanctuary is based on the principles of kindness, consent, and respect. Failure to follow these principles can result in banishment. In other words: we…
Find out more »Popping Questions: Quiz night & play party
A trivia buffs buffet, a sapiosexuals wet dream, a nerdy kinksters bacchanal!!!! Come join in on the fun, meet new folx, and compete for sexy fun prizes, and most importantly... fame and glory. Join Quizstress Maeve McBride the first Sunday of every month for a social pub quiz with a mix of kinky, nerdy, pop culture and general trivia to wow your play partners and impress your friends! Quiz themes will vary each month and costumes and fetishwear to fit the…
Find out more »Game Bang!
Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 cover Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very well, there are a few extra guidelines we ask you…
Find out more »Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a presentation on dungeon etiquette and safety for those new to the scene to get acclimated to the play party. We welcome all kinds…
Find out more »Laughrodisiac
Portland's longest-running (and definitely filthiest) comedy showcase. Every second Saturday.
Find out more »House Party
Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best house Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity
Find out more »Game Bang: Neon Nights
Your favorite Wednesday event is back - with black lights!
Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure...don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.
Play games, hang out, stay safe.
Heyyy Girl: High Fem Dance & Kink party
Heyyy Girl.... A high fem dance & kink party. Dressed fem or NB: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12/$22 Dressed like a bro: $30 Celebrate fem and NB artists and kinksters. Each month, we will feature a different artist from 1130-mid. September: Fergie! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth
Find out more »Jiffy Kink Speed Dating
Presented by MX Bliss Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here! Are you an introvert and mortified at the prospect of introducing yourself or asking people to play? Mx Bliss will be there to hold your hands and “coax/force” you into social interaction (you know you like it when she yells). Are you a slutty extrovert that can’t stop flirting? Please come ‘cause…
Find out more »Jiffy Kink: Ho Ho Hoes!
Presented by MxBliss 'Tis the season for all you slutty sluts and hoey hoes to represent. Wear your skimpiest, sexiest, and risque outfits. It's cold outside so let's warm it up with skin, latex, and all the things that make you feel alive...and make you purr. Less is more tonight (but if you'll go bare bottom, please be sure to bring a towel or something to sit on). Bring a piece of unused (or freshly laundered) ridiculous, scandalous, or ill…
Find out more »Game Bang: Pajamas
What better than games? Games with your PJs on.
Wear your favorite pajamas... or your least favorite... or none at all.
Festivus!
Sanctuary's sixth Festivus holiday celebration. Festivus defined by Seinfeld: A non-denominational holiday party, Festivus represents all those who hate the commercial and religious aspects of Christmas. Look here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HX55AzGku5Y Frank Costanza: "Many Christmases ago, I reached for a doll for my son. Another man grabbed the same doll. As I rained blows upon him, I knew there had to be a better way..." Featuring --An unadorned pole! --An airing of grievances!! --A protest! --White Elephant gift exchange! --More! There may…
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Cirque De Sade
EmpressElsewise and RedeemerPdx invite you to spend the evening embracing your dark side at our themed edge play party. Whether you’re a player or voyeur, we offer an enthusiastic environment for taboo play. This party caters to experienced edge Tops and bottoms. All attendees should be prepared to see and hear things that may shock or delight you. Due to the edge play nature of this event, attendees are asked to have attended several other public kink events and have an in-depth…
Find out more »Game Bang: Massage Night
Play games in your favorite Halloween costume while also enjoying massage night. Come as you are for a night celebrating the Good Touch side of kink: massage, sensory play, aftercare, tipping your bartender. Hearth will be hosting free massage demos and tutorials all night, with spare tables open for all to use. Dont like massages? Play games like a normal Game Bang! 21+ $10. Welcome to Game Bang! ...where we play a variety of sexy games while making connections with…
Find out more »January 2023
Game Bang!
Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 cover Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very well, there are a few extra guidelines we ask you…
Find out more »BroadCast
We welcome you to BroadCast: Sanctuary's monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women's spaces living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla ways of being in the world. BroadCast is a unique and lively circle of support where we gather monthly to drink drinks, be ourselves, ask questions, share ideas, evoke empathy and compassion, and share lots of laughter! BroadCast is typically a…
Find out more »Bi Night
Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! **Now with more Emo soundtrack - by request!** We hear it constantly: Being bi can be hard. How do you make the approach? Are they just being friendly? How might it affect my other partners? How will I be judged? This night is for bi men, bi women, and non-binary people who have bucked the system and made all the punny titles hard. Dance, chill, be comfortable. As always, there are no expectations of play…
Find out more »The Missing Kink
Get the kink you've been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! Remember: Sanctuary is based on the principles of kindness, consent, and respect. Failure to follow these principles can result in banishment. In other words: we…
Find out more »Game Bang: Neon Nights
Your favorite Wednesday event is back - with black lights!
Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure...don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.
Play games, hang out, stay safe.
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a presentation on dungeon etiquette and safety for those new to the scene to get acclimated to the play party. We welcome all kinds…
Find out more »Laughrodisiac
Portland's longest-running (and definitely filthiest) comedy showcase. Every second Saturday.
Find out more »House Party
Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best house Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity
Find out more »Game Bang: Pajamas
What better than games? Games with your PJs on.
Wear your favorite pajamas... or your least favorite... or none at all.
Heyyy Girl: High Fem Dance & Kink party
Heyyy Girl.... A high fem dance & kink party. Dressed fem or NB: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12/$22 Dressed like a bro: $30 Celebrate fem and NB artists and kinksters. Each month, we will feature a different artist from 1130-mid. September: Fergie! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth
Find out more »Jiffy Kink: New Years Revelations
F**k resolutions! Let's talk about revelations! What have you discovered about yourself? What's your kink? What's your superpower? January is all about new starts, manifesting all you want in your life, and kicking all the things that no longer serve you to the curb. Manifest what you want in your life at the friendly, inclusive, and shame-free Jiffy Kink Play Party: New Year's Revelations Edition! Please dress up in either: something that reflects the energy you want in your life…
Find out more »Portland Rope Arts Group
Learn techniques and share skills with Portland's longest-running BDSM rope group Fourth Sundays
Find out more »Game Bang: Massage Night
Play games in your favorite Halloween costume while also enjoying massage night. Come as you are for a night celebrating the Good Touch side of kink: massage, sensory play, aftercare, tipping your bartender. Hearth will be hosting free massage demos and tutorials all night, with spare tables open for all to use. Dont like massages? Play games like a normal Game Bang! 21+ $10. Welcome to Game Bang! ...where we play a variety of sexy games while making connections with…
Find out more »February 2023
Game Bang!
Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 cover Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very well, there are a few extra guidelines we ask you…
Find out more »Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a presentation on dungeon etiquette and safety for those new to the scene to get acclimated to the play party. We welcome all kinds…
Find out more »Laughrodisiac
Portland's longest-running (and definitely filthiest) comedy showcase. Every second Saturday.
Find out more »Game Bang: Massage Night
Play games in your favorite Halloween costume while also enjoying massage night. Come as you are for a night celebrating the Good Touch side of kink: massage, sensory play, aftercare, tipping your bartender. Hearth will be hosting free massage demos and tutorials all night, with spare tables open for all to use. Dont like massages? Play games like a normal Game Bang! 21+ $10. Welcome to Game Bang! ...where we play a variety of sexy games while making connections with…
Find out more »Portland Rope Arts Group
Learn techniques and share skills with Portland's longest-running BDSM rope group Fourth Sundays
Find out more »March 2023
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a presentation on dungeon etiquette and safety for those new to the scene to get acclimated to the play party. We welcome all kinds…
Find out more »Laughrodisiac
Portland's longest-running (and definitely filthiest) comedy showcase. Every second Saturday.
Find out more »Game Bang: Massage Night
Play games in your favorite Halloween costume while also enjoying massage night. Come as you are for a night celebrating the Good Touch side of kink: massage, sensory play, aftercare, tipping your bartender. Hearth will be hosting free massage demos and tutorials all night, with spare tables open for all to use. Dont like massages? Play games like a normal Game Bang! 21+ $10. Welcome to Game Bang! ...where we play a variety of sexy games while making connections with…
Find out more »Portland Rope Arts Group
Learn techniques and share skills with Portland's longest-running BDSM rope group Fourth Sundays
Find out more »April 2023
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a presentation on dungeon etiquette and safety for those new to the scene to get acclimated to the play party. We welcome all kinds…
Find out more »May 2023
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a presentation on dungeon etiquette and safety for those new to the scene to get acclimated to the play party. We welcome all kinds…
Find out more »June 2023
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a presentation on dungeon etiquette and safety for those new to the scene to get acclimated to the play party. We welcome all kinds…
Find out more »July 2023
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a presentation on dungeon etiquette and safety for those new to the scene to get acclimated to the play party. We welcome all kinds…
Find out more »August 2023
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a presentation on dungeon etiquette and safety for those new to the scene to get acclimated to the play party. We welcome all kinds…
Find out more »September 2023
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a presentation on dungeon etiquette and safety for those new to the scene to get acclimated to the play party. We welcome all kinds…
Find out more »October 2023
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a presentation on dungeon etiquette and safety for those new to the scene to get acclimated to the play party. We welcome all kinds…
Find out more »November 2023
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a presentation on dungeon etiquette and safety for those new to the scene to get acclimated to the play party. We welcome all kinds…
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